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Memoirs of a Psychologist: The Psychology of Money and Children - Teach Them Young or Pay for it Later

The following is a piece on pre-teen parenting tips, co-authored with psychologist Robert Erdei. We partnered with Dr. Erdei to create a series of blog posts geared specifically toward the difficult parenting challenges we were experiencing ourselves. We call this series, "Memoirs of a Psychologist". We hope you enjoy this piece and please don't hesitate to leave a comment below with your thoughts.

Welcome to part II in the series of The Psychology of Money: Money and Children. In this piece, Psychologist Robert Erdei discusses how children perceive money, their understanding of money and the role it plays in their lives. How do you feel about money and children? Should they learn the "value" of money at an early age or should they be kept more sheltered? I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.

Children learn through economic activities to control their desires and acquire skills necessary to live in the society they are raised. They have to follow certain rules, customs and social norms governing the acquisition and use of money. The cultural context also influences the ways in which money is used.

Money is not just a “thing.” Signs, social norms and social representations contribute to the concept of money, making it a complicated psychological system.

Money is not just a “thing.” Signs, social norms and social representations contribute to the concept of money, making it a complicated psychological system. From an economic point of view, money is neutral in the sense that it can be exchanged for any equivalent and it exists outside human relations other than that exchange.

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Help for Parents

Parents Control the Use of Money by Their Children

From the point of view of childrearing, money cannot be seen as neutral. Pocket money is a method to control money usage by children; it is a transfer within the family (from parents to children), which is used outside the family later. Social norms regulate its use. Adults usually restrict the use of pocket money, while they might also think that friends might influence their children in a bad way to use their pocket money.

Children do not have an innate sense and knowledge about money; they learn its meaning through the interactions with parents and other adults. The learning of appropriate uses of money is a communicative act. Many researchers point out that money possesses a magic power and the ability of children using money makes them magicians. (Sato, 2011)

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Children's Interest and Understanding of Money

Grunberg and Anthony (1980) studied children’s interest and understanding of money. They found that interest in money increases between 5 and 7 years of age. From interviews with parents, it was salient that children at this age begin to hoard money, keep accurate savings, they tend to nag parents for money and look for ways to acquire money.

Between the ages of 5 and 7 years, not only does the interest in money rise, but children also begin to develop a rational understanding of money as well. Children recognized and recalled certain items, like a quarter or a one-dollar bill more easily. They start to prefer a one-dollar bill to a hundred pennies. Children’s increased interest in money also results in being less altruistic around the age of seven. They discover the world of money and at the same time, they become reluctant to part with it.

According to Lau (1998), the perception is money is very much determined by the social role of the individual.  Money is an emotion-laden subject and has a high evaluative and moralistic nature.  According to a study with Chinese kindergarten children of five and six years of age, they have found that the concept of money was familiar to them despite not being taught in the formal curriculum. Chinese children showed similar interest in money and responded to questions about money with similar ease like Western children did in the study of Grunberg and Anthony.

Boys and girls did not differ in their association s of money. Children showed little evaluative or moralistic connotations, such as money was good or bad. Six-year olds were more coherent and homogenous in their responses than five-year olds were. To children, money is primarily functional (arguably, unlike adults).

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How do children learn the significance of money?

From the beginning of their lives, they are surrounded by various things and items. These items are given to them; they do not have to get them for themselves. As they grow, it will become increasingly difficult to get all the things they want or being satisfied with the things they are given.

In modern societies, learning the adequate use of money is a relevant and important developmental task for children. They learn the use of money through the experience of exchanging possessions, but the meaning of money is embedded in the cultural context and therefore has conflicts with the exchange activity. Receiving pocket money is not merely a rational choice and exchange activity, it is part of the dynamic of the ecological system surrounding the child and the parent-child interactions. (Sato, 2011)

References

  • Baker, R., Kiger, G., Riley, P. J. (1996): Time, Dirt, and Money: The Effects of Gender, Gender Ideology, and Type of Earner Marriage on Time, Household-Task, and Economic Satisfaction Among Couples with Children, Journal of Social Behavior and Personality, 1996 Special Issue, Vol. 11, No. 5
  • Baumeister, R. F. (2008): Why Does Money Mater? The Psychological Meaning of Money, http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cultural-animal/200806/why-does-money-matter
  • Grunberg, N. E., Anthony, B. J. (1980): Monetary Awareness in Children, Basic and Applied Social Psychology, 1(4), 343-350, 1980
  • Lau, S. (1998): Money: What it means to Children and Adults, Social Behavior and Personality, 1998, 26(3), 297-306
  • Lynn, R. (1993): Sex Differences in Competitiveness and the Valuation of Money in Twenty Countries, The Journal of Social Psychology, 133(4), 507-511, 1993
  • Sato, T. (2011): Minding Money: How Understanding of Value is Culturally Promoted, Integrated Psychological & Behavioral Science, March 2011, 45(1), 116-131
  • Vogler, C., Lyonette, C., Wiggins, R. D. (2008): Money, Power and Spending Decisions in Intimate Relationships, The Sociological Review, Vol. 56, No. 1, 117-143, February 2008
  • Williams, M. J., Levy Paluck, E., Spencer-Rodgers, J. (2010): The Masculinity of Money: Automatic Stereotypes Predict Gender Differences in Estimated Salaries, Psychology of Women Quarterly, 34, 2010, 7-20

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